Our Children:

Welcome back to Miz Judi’s Kitchen. I hope all are doing well today. Thank you for coming back to visit with us once again.

Our Children:

I know I talked about our kids in my column before last, but I feel we all might want to spend more time talking on the subject of our children, so let’s do some of this today. Please become involved if you’d like.

We’ve had a couple of comments in the past few days that frankly, have weighed on Dub and I pretty heavily, the subject…our children and our grandchildren. It literally is heartbreaking to read other’s comments concerning their children.

To Sue, we hear you, and our heart goes out to you, but time heals all things. Young people are just that, young, and you’d be amazed at the difference a few years make. The time may have come to show a little “tough love,” it sure never hurt Dub and I, or our children either, but understand, they aren’t perfect by any means, they too have faults.

It’d be great if our kids came with a common sense version of a “How to Raise” booklet, but sadly, they don’t, nor did we.

The government shouldn’t be involved in the raising of our children, but they are now. The next question is how to get the government out of the “child raising” business! They have no right whatsoever in the rearing of our children and we as parents and grandparents need to “shout this from the mountaintops!” We have to take our children back…before it’s too late!

How do we do this? First off we have got to become ONE VOICE! This may be the single most important issue in our mission of taking back our children!

This can never happen if Sue is over here, Sandra is over there, Deb’s not in today, or Dub’s gone fishing. Once more, we have to have one voice in this issue, it is imperative!

Before we go any further, let’s look back.

If you’ve read Dub’s article, “Please Don’t Feed the Bears,” you’ll know what I mean.
This has bearing on our discussion here today. Through infiltrating our school system, becoming people of power in our schools and educational systems, the left has become literally, the teachers of our children. Just like the bears. Feeding them through handouts, or giveaways, the bears become “indoctrinated.” By teaching only half an education, the liberal view, what is this? Exactly…indoctrination.

Can our teachers, the ones who do still believe like us, discipline our children anymore? Can the bus drivers who haul our children back and forth to and from school discipline our children? The answer is no to both.

Now, let me ask you one other question, and sink this one in for a minute please. Can we as parents, the Mothers and Fathers of our children, discipline our own kids? No, not if you listen to the government!

How many parents across our Country in the past have been incarcerated for spanking their children? Not for child abuse mind you, and believe you me, I have absolutely zero tolerance for such, and to be completely honest, who does? No one in their right mind surely.

But sadly today, all our children have to do is pick up the phone, dial 911 and only accuse the parent of abuse, and the parent is in a no win situation. Too many times this ending with their own child, even all their children, being taken from the home.

So if no one can discipline the children, where does any semblance of respect come from? This is answered easily enough, there isn’t.

Hitler once said, “How fortunate for governments…that the people they govern don’t think!” I hate to say it this way, but stop and think about it!

We all make mistakes and none of us are perfect, but in reality we’re losing our children to an agenda. An agenda that’s truly bigger than we even imagine. The saddest part to all of this is we’re losing our children to a philosophy that could care less for them. They’re only being used to further someone else’s goal. When the goal is reached what happens then…to the children?

We’re to Blame As Well:

We talk about this agenda and the indoctrination of our children, but look closer to home for a little while.

You know, I will never forget when our sons were in high school. We went to pick them up one day, and I could not believe all the new trucks in the student parking lot, and I do mean, new ones! Parents what are we doing here? What could all these kids have possibly done to drive such fine brand spanking new vehicles? Even we can see a vehicle for the children five or six years old maybe, and dependable, but brand new?

Nowadays every time you see a child from ten years old, on up… they have a cell phone, and some even younger than that. I cannot understand why we are doing this. Is it because we really believe it’s helping them, or really because it pacifies them? Just because, we as parents don’t feel like dealing with the flak?

How ludicrous is it for a grown adult, a parent mind you, bowing down and rewarding an 8, 9, or 10 year old child with a cell phone, because they’d rather do that than listen to the flak? Flak…from a 10 year old child?? What has happened to the program, people…the program that has the parent as the parent, and the child as exactly what they are…the child?

We can point fingers and blame the schools, the government, and anyone else you want to put the blame on, but a lot of this blame belongs where it lays, at home. We’re a lot of the problem, as parents and grandparents not doing our job.

We’re just trying to say in our column this morning, there’s plenty of blame to go around, and a lot of work to be done. But the main thing to understand is this, it’s time for the talk to stop.

We’ve talked about the teachers, and sure, there are many out there going through the motions and basically, just drawing a paycheck. But on the flipside of the coin, there are good caring teachers who would like to see your children succeed, and become good, productive adults!

But once more we have to look to the parents. What kind of a product are we sending to school anymore? The kids haven’t been taught respect at home, morals or values at home, or even how they’re supposed to act.

Here’s one example of us not paying attention as parents. Look at the “indoctrination” of this young man. He’s literally complaining of his boss, the OWNER of the business, telling him, what to do, how to do, what he expects as the business owner, even right down to complaining that the business owner tells him what time to be at work!

He’s passing out flyers, and is a member of a socialist organization. Listen also to his solution to their problem…the boss having to understand it is a “worker’s right,” to have equal say so in a business owner’s business.

Here’s the video, but please understand that there is some very strong language being used. I do believe we all need to look at this, take a step back, look at ourselves, Dub and I included, and come up with some way, together, as one voice to combat this problem. This literally has become a priority!

This is all from no parental guidance, or any type of family unit structure.

This is the result, and once more the left sees this, and there’s no hesitation in their seizing any opportunity of taking our youth, and turn them against us. Which is basically, any and everything our Country stands for.

How is it not a right of the people, to not be able to run these types of people out of our country? Not the young man in this video, but the ones teaching such rhetoric? We have to understand as well, as parents, we have got to…spend time with our children.

Have we not stood tall against communism worldwide? Then how is it possibly condoned in our country itself. Free speech is one thing, but to preach hate, indoctrination, even revolution here in our country is absurd to me. These people hate what our country stands for literally, so why do the believers of our Constitution have to abide to such nonsense? On top of this all, we’re losing our children to their teachings.

How would you like to attempt to teach our children today? Can you even begin to imagine?

Now I have to say this, first of all we have many, many children who have been brought up right. They know the values instilled in them by their family. They know what respect is and show it. They know and realize as simply a part of life that in order to achieve something you first have to earn it, and if you don’t do right, there are consequences for it.

These are all the standards you need to become a good, productive member of society, and it’s up to us to instill these values in our children.

So all I am asking is for us the parents, to take the time show them what life is all about. If you don’t respect yourself no one else will, and life is what you make it, not what someone gives you.

You want to see a fine example of our youth today? Look no further than our military, all fine young men and women, defending our freedoms and liberties while away overseas. Many giving the ultimate sacrifice, and many, many more going through life after serving with missing body parts, while we continue to give our freedoms and liberties away right here at home. This makes a lot of sense, doesn’t it?

What do you the readers feel about this problem? Are you willing to take a little time and contribute some of your own ideas or solutions? Our children are a major concern today, and don’t for one minute think the left doesn’t see this for exactly what it is. The opportunity to destroy the family unit!

If they can literally take our children and continue the indoctrination they’re being so successful with, our Republic cannot last, and honestly it is that simple!

So again, if you parents and grandparents would like to form a group of some sort to become one voice in this battle to regain the youth of our country, our children, please feel free to use our site as a springboard. We’d be happy to help out any way Dub and I can.

We can add a column, and us all swap out writing them, or just contact us with some ideas or a game plan! We’re all ears.

Till next time keep a smile on your face and one in your heart.

May God Bless each and every one of you! You’re all great people!

Deb…and Dub